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Nov 14, 2014 at 8:56 PM. @karebear1980, I love giving blow jobs too, esp when I'm not in the mood for sex. j. jen4466. Nov 14, 2014 at 8:56 PM. married 5 years and most times I start sex with a blow job and then finish him with sex. it really turns me on knowing that I'm giving him so much pleasure. M.
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We strive to provide you with a high quality community experience. I will just have to feel the pain and I am not capable at this point of tolerating it. True eh. If you hear a voice screaming inside you "No! I love it, both giving and receiving. If you stop the behavior that is causing the pain, then you won't need the behavior because you won't have the pain! If you ask me, when you say you feel powerful when you have sex, you are fulfilling your animal desires, you're listening to the animal voice. This was not the case at all, we just did things to comfort eachother because we needed it. Ok, here we go. Because I was sexually abused in sick ways and was such a sexual screw up at such a young age I think I feel a closeness with these people. He suffered an abusive childhood at the hand of his father. HRTD has additional Anyone know how I feel? However, that may require you to dig a bit and try and see why you don't like it. On the other, imagine if your husband didn't like foreplay, and only wanted to get right down to business. My husband is dishonest. The admiration and attentiveness of some men is just as addictive and it feeds the pleasure principle in our psyche the ID. This is the last communication I received from the Assistant Principal. Sexual Addiction message board, open discussion, and online support group. You have a healthy conscience. I guess I would list among my good qualities good humor, attractiveness, and willingness to do anything for anyone not sure how unselfish this is, though. My Friendship Dilemma?? You can also see the complete list of discussion topics below:. They're in the past. Humans, however, are not animals. Forums: Relationships , Help , Marriage , Love. Remember why you married the guy you did - you recognized that he has strong core values that you admire and believe in yourself, and that you can pass along to your children. If people knew me they would look away in disgust and never trust me again. The thought of putting the body part that he pees from in my mouth is a turn off. He said he couldn't handle me going home with another man every night. Unintentional affair. I have almost been caught several times by my husband, which I think adds to the excitement, although part of me longs for him to find me out so that I will have to stop. And then, ya know what? Am I unreasonable or is she crazy? Sex is very important in marriage, and is meant to be enjoyed by BOTH partners. I have been tempted and obsessed, and that's why I'm seeking help. He became obsessed with me and repeatedly asked me if I "promised" that I loved him. I basically had no conscience about this. I've also noticed that both of our mothers are single and they both say how disgusting and demeaning they think oral sex is. This kind of thing can't be avoided, and having someone hold your hand isn't always an option. My own experience, I wasn't too keen on it either. If I had been a man and him a woman I could have seriously hurt him. Issue in the bedroom! Click here to continue to the Open Forum 4 discussion page to post your questions and comments. A response I wrote to an article on Child Marriage;. Because we have so many similarities, feel free to talk with me anytime. If your partner is telling you that they're missing something in your sex life, then I'd try and find a way to accommodate him. To date I have not actually met anyone that I have chatted to online but I am afraid that that will be the next step. The function of the mouth is not sexual; it is not a sexual organ. Am I cheating?
We strive to provide you with a high quality community experience. If you feel a message or content violates these standards and would like to request its removal please submit the following information and our moderating team will respond shortly. What to Expect has thousands of open discussions happening each day. We work hard to share our most timely and active conversations with you. We keep them up because there are a ton of great conversations here and we believe you deserve to see them all. How do you rate the quality of your sex life after years of marriage? Say 5 years of marriage or more. I have been married for 8 years. We stopped oral sex in about year two of marriage for a variety of reasons but mostly laziness I suppose. My husband all of a sudden tells me he misses it. I find it hard to go back to that kinda sex life post kids. It's just not who I am anymore. Any advice? We are 4 years in. I still love giving blow jobs just as much as before, if not more now. After three kids and a bunch of ups and downs, we have a new level of intimacy that just seems to grow over time. Just about 6 years in and I echo what cgoodwin said. We hit a lull for a little while after our first baby but now it's ramped back up 20 weeks with baby number 3. Our intimacy is so much better and more intense than ever and doing that for my husband daily really helps! I think you should really try to "get back into it" for his sake. Do it together. If your partner is telling you that they're missing something in your sex life, then I'd try and find a way to accommodate him. I'm sure he doesn't expect a bj every night but a bj once in a while wouldn't kill you. Is there something that you'd like that you aren't doing. Perhaps you can trade favors for each other? After 20 years and 6 kids 19,13,9,7,4,11 mos together it's more about quality than quantity. My husband works long days on his feet and I stay at home. Most of the time he's too tired for sex. There is a unique satisfaction in finding ways too make him squirm. I actually get turned down most of the time when I offer. Oral sex has become an alternative when I want some but he's too tired. I also found he is more attentive to my needs when we do have sex. I've also noticed that both of our mothers are single and they both say how disgusting and demeaning they think oral sex is. We've been married longer than any of our four parents have been. I just don't like blow jobs. Never really have. The thought of putting the body part that he pees from in my mouth is a turn off. I get that he wants it and I want to please him, but I feel anxious even thinking about getting back into oral sex. He's not given me oral sex in that long either and it's not like he said he missed that. It would have to be a two way street if he wants blow jobs. We are on the brink of a separation and sex is one of the issues. I don't think it will fix everything but may help to give in. I just don't feel the connection with him anymore. We grown apart probably because we have not been intimate in about over a year. I've never turned him down but he's not initiated either.
Learn more about our guidelines Just so you know, What to Expect may make commissions on shopping links on this page. However, when I opened my mind and saw how much he enjoyed it, and how happy it made him, it made me exceedingly happy to know I could please him that much. I also sleep with my husband although this last affair left me feeling without desire for him because I was attempting to totally disconnect. Re: I am a married, female sex addict and am terrified by bringmetolife » Tue Dec 29, pm Yes, you can go on. He's always enjoyed performing oral on me, I give bj's regularly. Marriage Forum Topics Husband lies to me for 26 years. You will need to register to be able to join in fellowship with Christians all over the world. Christian members please remember to read the Statement of Purpose threads for each forum within Christian Congregations before posting in the forum. Subscribe to Podcast by Email. So pissed off but don't understand why I have an affair with a married women. I'm not sexually satisfied should I leave my 9 year marriage. What are reasons for a married men to fantasize about another woman during sex with his wife? My Friendship Dilemma?? God made the mouth to speak and to eat. Ok, here we go. Threatening to leave him is wrong, imo. Say 5 years of marriage or more. Sacrifices are rewarded. It will be difficult, but men often feel rejected by their wives when they argue about sex. That means a lot even from a stranger. And then, ya know what? Or do you have the pain because of the drug? If you hear a voice screaming inside you "No! Forums: Relationships , Marriage , Cheating , Affair , tag1. If I had been a man and him a woman I could have seriously hurt him. But what you may hear from that tiny animal voice screaming loudly is that you have to act out because these things happened to you. Sorry for it being so long, thank you I have almost been caught several times by my husband, which I think adds to the excitement, although part of me longs for him to find me out so that I will have to stop. I had emotional relationships with three of these people although they weren't healthy It needs your help. True eh. I'm sorry you guys are having problems. Sex is very important in marriage, and is meant to be enjoyed by BOTH partners. All I know is that I want to use the drug so bad and I am mortified of what I will be without it. While he shouldn't pressure you if you aren't comfortable with it, you should also recognize that it is important to him. All I can say is what happened, when the issue was raging war at our home and in our marriage Forums: Beautiful , Cheating , Married , Flirt. Oral sex, the thorn in my marriage. Forums: Relationships , Divorce , Ex , Married. It's that I hate myself and cannot feel or accept his love. After three kids and a bunch of ups and downs, we have a new level of intimacy that just seems to grow over time. Everyone kept getting taken away from me, there was no one left. Newest First. Yes we have many issues to possibly sort out or perhaps just go our separate ways.
Moderator: Snaga. Return to Sexual Addiction Forum. Users browsing this forum: Google [Bot] and 10 guests. Psychology and Mental Health Forum. Our partner. Sexual Addiction message board, open discussion, and online support group. Forum rules. I am a married, female sex addict and am terrified by Krista » Mon Dec 28, pm I know this is a little long but I can't leave any of it out and am desperate for help. Please read it. I feel an incredible amount of pain and fear right and I'm not asking you to go easy on me; I just know how hurtful my actions are already and need to get a little guidance and perhaps be able to talk to someone who is like me I don't see the point. I'm 28 years old. I guess I would list among my good qualities good humor, attractiveness, and willingness to do anything for anyone not sure how unselfish this is, though. But none of that really matters. If people knew me they would look away in disgust and never trust me again. I am a serial cheater. I have, in one year, cheated on my husband with 6 different people, numerous times. This seems a modest number to me compared to what I could have easily let myself done. Having 2 children has limited my time extensively. Otherwise I have no idea what I would have been able to do. I had emotional relationships with three of these people although they weren't healthy I have led a completely double life. In addition to sleeping with these other people I also watch porn on a very regular basis and masturbate and also compulsively masturbate when not watching porn as well. I also sleep with my husband although this last affair left me feeling without desire for him because I was attempting to totally disconnect. I wouldn't say that I am physically aroused all the time of course I am on a regular basis, though - I would more say that I am mentally aroused constantly. And people would never know. Unless they were someone that engaged with me in usage and I can spot the people who will a mile away. With each man I sleep with, I feel an incredible ego boost - almost like another notch in my belt. I usually go for men that have emotional needs that are left from abuse. I don't know this when I meet them Because I was sexually abused in sick ways and was such a sexual screw up at such a young age I think I feel a closeness with these people. I was raped and tortured at the ages of 4 and 5 and I had a sexual relationship with my cousin at 7 and was abusive to him. I started compulsively masturbating when I was about 8 and never stopped. I was always seeking sexual connections with people all the time to feel worth their time and to make them feel things for me and "love" me and "like" me. Of course it doesn't last. I think we see each others needs and sense it in each other before we ever talk about it. The last man I was with was raped as a grown man while in the military by three other men. We both had problems and used each other, all the while telling each other we "loved" each other. He became obsessed with me and repeatedly asked me if I "promised" that I loved him. I said I loved him even though I didn't. I basically had no conscience about this. When he saw that I would not leave my husband he grew distant and unreadable. He said he couldn't handle me going home with another man every night. Last week I was at his apartment and he wasn't giving in to me sexually like I thought he "should" and I basically sexually assaulted him. If I had been a man and him a woman I could have seriously hurt him. I'm scared I'm becoming one. I'm scared because I didn't even really care whether he wanted it or not.